So basically, I'm a junior at Boston College with a lot of time on my hands... This would be the result, I suppose. I'm also an INFJ.
In some ways, the term “pansexual” came out of biphobia and a need to stipulate that one was not transphobic. If you take the binary view of “bisexual,” then a sexuality specific to an attraction to men and women could be seen as being noninclusive of transgender men and women. On the other hand, transgender men and women want to (and should) be seen as simply men and women, meaning that they would/should be included in that very binary; not including them tends to be much more phobic and noninclusive.
Then there is the thought that the binary view of bisexuality can be seen as phobic of anyone who identifies as genderqueer, or somewhere along the gender and sexuality spectrum, not identifying as male or female, man or woman. But, as I mentioned before, the true definition of “bisexual” is being attracted to those who are the same as me and those who are different from me, encompassing all genders and identities. The often-repeated argument that “bi means two” ignores a simple fact: “Same” and “different” are, indeed, two groups."
writing adult emails is awful
hi [name of person],
this formatting is making me uncomfortable but I have to tell you something / ask you something that is vital to my career as a student.
I re-read and edited that sentence for an hour, but you’ll probably just glance over it for half a second.
9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable?
Depends on who I’m talking to but in general yeah.
14. Do you believe in luck and miracles?
I believe that things happen that can be described as lucky or unlucky or miraculous. I’m not sure I really attribute any greater meaning to them.
24. Favorite part of your daily routine?
Umm. Not really something I have to do every day, but I enjoy plucking my eyebrows more than I probably objectively should.
82. Favourite movie?
Pride and Prejudice
135. Dumbest lie you ever told?
I never tell dumb lies. Only clever lies with no danger of being caught.
148. What’s your favorite quote?
"Art is the lens through which science transforms into wonder"
I forgot to write down the exact source because I’m the worst.